Rape, sexual assault, Sexual Violence, Uncategorized

I finally feel over my rape as I’m no longer scared in sexual situations

I lost my virginity to rape and afterwards although I met up with guys and kissed them I was unable to have sex and kept refusing them.  Then finally a year and three months later I finally had sex and I did again. This is a massive sign of progress for me as I thought I was never going to have a normal sex life and I was going to forever feel abnormal. Now I feel more comfortable with things and like more of an adult.

I still have trust issues but that is natural and I wonder whether being less trusting of people can protect me anyway from being hurt again.

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5 thoughts on “I finally feel over my rape as I’m no longer scared in sexual situations

  1. Grace says:

    Thanks for being so incredibly honest in sharing your personal experience! You’ve reminded me that there is indeed hope for victims of sexual assault. Stay strong!!

  2. We follow each other on Twitter, but I’ve just discovered your blog and it moved me to tears. You are an incredibly brave and inspiring woman. Please keep writing xx

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