I posted a while ago about how upset I was when my friend asked for space from me and we have had constant arguments since and not been taking.
We were supposed to be best friends but now I realise only the friends I’ve made at school and university have stayed true to me.
My best friend from primary school and my best friend from a family friend both left me when I started to get ill in 2014 with bipolar and most of my friends from bipolar support group have left me when I got unstable with borderline personality disorder even though I’m fine now.
I am just realising that I’ve been focusing on the wrong people and even my friend from the psychiatric hospital is flakey and not a good friend.
I am feeling very sad that I’ve lost a good friend but I know this is in part my borderline personality disorder. However I am happy to have reconnected yesterday with other true friends.
I feel like the friend I lost wasn’t a true friend as they never are if you lose them.